Book Review: Big Chicas Don’t Cry by Annette Chavez Macias

About the Book

Four cousins navigate love, loss, and the meaning of family over the course of one memorable year in this heartfelt family drama.

Cousins Mari, Erica, Selena, and Gracie are inseparable. They aren’t just family but best friends—sharing secrets, traditions, and a fierce love for their abuelita. But their idyllic childhood ends when Mari’s parents divorce, forcing her to move away. With Mari gone, the girls’ tight-knit bond unravels.

Fifteen years later, Mari’s got the big house and handsome husband, but her life is in shambles. Erica’s boyfriend just dumped her, and her new boss hates her. Selena can’t seem to find her place in the world—not Mexican enough for her family, not white enough for her colleagues. And Gracie is a Catholic school teacher with an all-consuming crush, but she can’t trust herself when it comes to romance.

As rocky as the cousins’ lives have become, nothing can prepare them for the heartbreaking loss of a loved one. When tragedy reunites them, will they remember their abuelita’s lessons about family and forgiveness—or are fifteen years of separation too much to overcome?

My Review

I was drawn to the story because of the ties between female cousins. Growing up, I was close with two cousins myself and I know how special that relationship can be – and how it can grow apart as you grow older. I was also interested in learning more about Hispanic culture, as there is a heavy emphasis on traditions, food and more within the story. I will say I think this could have made a good series. Following four women all with complicated storylines – and then flashbacks to the past and their childhood – made everything a bit convoluted. I had a hard time keeping track of who was who at times. While some of the plot points were a bit predictable, I also enjoyed the few moments of unpredictability in there, especially with Mari’s marriage. The focal point of family over everything was endearing, but the ending felt rushed and overall it wasn’t a favorite for me.

3 stars